I don’t want my doctor to tell me to continue my pregnancy or not. I just want to know my options.

Ease Me In (The more guarded approach)

I’m not sure what my plans are, so I was hoping we could go over all the options. I still need to figure out what is right for me and that’s something I will discuss with my partner, family and friends. But I’d love your advice on treatment once I make the decision.

Just Give It to Me (The no-nonsense tactic)

At this point, all I want are the facts. Just the details about each of my choices. I don’t want to think about opinions or personal feelings yet—not even my own—until I am fully informed.